What's the true meaning of being beautiful / hot / pretty etc etc.. ?

I'm sure that most of us girls have come to a point where we care about our looks . Maybe obsessed would be the right word ? Well, when it comes to looks , every question regarding every single angle counts like " Am I fat ? " ," Does my butt look bigger ? ", "My thighs are humongous ! ", "Does my arm look flabby ? " and God knows where the list may end . Haha . Of course we do care what others think of us at times and I admit , I was and still am asking these silly questions . A couple of my buddies and I were chatting and we were wondering what's the definition of hot , beautiful, pretty from a guy's point of view . Majority of them WILL say :

Big boobs

Huge Arse

Killer body

Hourglass figure

Big eyes - yea face eyes .

No pimples

Pretty face !

Cute

and etc etc ..

But , only a handful of true guys will go for the inner beauty and I totally salute guys like this .. YONG CHANG! I salute you ! ;) I'm not saying that it's wrong or offensive to have all of that listed above. I'm just saying that besides appearance , inner beauty is the best beauty of all ! Being you , your true self !

Anyway , back to topic. Being beautiful doesn't mean it's a need to have killer physical traits . Somehow , we should actually thank God that we have all we have now and not to complain about it .I'm not trying to be harsh but seriously , sometimes , some people should be thankful and not whine about it. Like be thankful that you have a proper face and not a distorted one .

Besides that , to me , everyone IS beautiful regardless of how they look ! Here , we may note obese people as fat BUT , in Africa - or at least that's where I think it is , being obese a little means they ARE beautiful ! Some even took the trouble to feed themselves until they become a ball just to reach the status. See , even that's beautiful ! I agree , everyone in the world regardless of how they look , what their sizes are, everyone IS BEAUTIFUL in the inside and outside .

And speaking about it , I don't really like people differentiating or judging other people based on their sizes or how they look . It's actually VERY insulting and sadly, there ARE people like that ! Some will even start talking about them or gosipping about them behind their backs . I mean come on ! They have feelings too . It's not like they're deaf or something ? I mean it's normal to comment about people based on their appearance but I don't get why some people would trash talk about them till the day ends ! WTH ? I'm sorry if this is offending but I'm just stating facts and there're no intentions of me pinpointing others. Moreover , it's best if we show our true colours rather than faking it ;)

* I think my post doesn't make much sense ? =S *

Anyhoo , conclusion is everyone's beautiful ! Regardless of anything . And most importantly , be true , be YOU ! Who cares if others might gossip about how you look . At least you know that they notice you Hah ! Oh and having confidence in yourself is very important !You can be a tiny person in a BIG world but , with confidence , you'll definitely stand out ! So, now , just eat and live healthily and put a big smile on your face and say " I AM BEAUTIFUL ! "

Chio ;)

ps, ANLENE ! I hate you for watching New Moon now ! XD